Saturday, October 10, 2020

Emotionally Stressed

Dear Joyce, 

From time to time, I become emotional and feel like crying or am impatient after my stroke, which causes a lot of stress. Will those feelings go away? 


Signed,

Emotionally Stressed 


Dear Emotional, 


Remember that crying, impatience, and stress are typical early on. My stroke is 11 years old, and for the first 2 years, I had those same emotions. They’re part of the grieving process that we all go through as stroke survivors, and will become less and less in time.


Establishing a one-on-one relationship, preferably with another stroke survivor who’s not “new” to the game, could be beneficial. Keep in mind that stroke survivors just can’t be rushed into a support group setting because someone else thinks it would be a good idea. 


When discussing your question, another stroke survivor in the Northwest Brain Network said that it helped him to focus on things he gained before stroke--such as job experience or hobbies, rather than the challenges after stroke. 


I hope this helps. At the very least, you are thinking about the emotions and know that you want to improve!


1 comment:

  1. dear jpyce. for those of you that are new to a stroke and cry a lot that is part of the stroke and is called pseudo bulbar affect sand uypu can get medication for it. i had a stroke seven yesrs ago andf my left hand and arm are still paralyzed. i am going to germany in october for stem cell treatment for strpoke recovery.
    marie frisch_ koehler>

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